Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach
Why Women Act "Crazy" | Emotional Volatility In Relationships
When you learn the truth about 'crazy' or emotional women, two critical things will change: First, you'll like women more than you do now and second, you won't feel so threatened by their moods anymore. Relationships fail because one or both partners feels misunderstood, attacked or alone. By understanding the opposite sex a little more, you can create healthier, happier and more resilient relationships.
If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help.
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I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men.
I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same.
DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Let’s not skirt around the issue. Women can be emotional. Sometimes when we’re emotional we act ‘crazy’, which is just another way of saying ‘unreasonable’ ‘irrational’ or ‘without logic’.
And our crazy drives men crazy.
I’m a divorce coach for men, so I get to talk to a lot of guys. Not surprisingly, a lot of them are really hesitant to get back out there in the dating world, in a large part because women seem so volatile and unpredictable.
But as much as I know you don’t want to get hurt again, I also know that you don’t want to be alone. If you did, you probably wouldn’t have bothered with this video.
So here’s what I can promise you - stick with me on this one, and by the end of this video you’ll have a much more complete understanding of why women act so irrationally AND that understanding will make you LIKE women just a little bit more than you do right now.
Here’s the thing - women don’t want to be unreasonable. In fact, if we’re acting irrationally, we usually know it, and we’d like to change it.
In fact, most women are incredibly skillful at controlling their emotions. If you’re divorced like many of my clients you may know this well - often women are so good at masking what they really feel that their husbands are completely blindsided by the divorce.
And often those same women appear ‘totally happy’ immediately after the divorce, leading their ex husbands to wonder if they are completely heartless, unemotional beings incapable of love.
Interestingly, these are the two accusations I most often hear leveled at women by the men that have been hurt by them:
Women are too emotional and incapable of thinking logically… OR
Women are heartless and incapable of feeling real love.
How is it that women can seem both too emotional and too unemotional?
This apparent contradiction is not something inherent, that women are born with.
It is an adaptation to the contradictory expectations that modern society puts on women.
