Rachael Sloan - Divorce Coach for Men
The Truth About Love
Love is not something that happens to you, out of the blue, hitting you when you least expect it. That is lust, or passion, or the long awaited fulfilment of your need for validation. Love is a choice.
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I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men.
I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same.
DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Love is a feeling, a set of physical sensations in your body. It is created by and linked to your thoughts, which means you can feel love by thinking loving thoughts.
One of the greatest sources of pain in most human relationships is the illusion that you create someone else’s emotions and that they should create yours. If you can’t make her feel loved, you’ve failed as a husband.
If she doesn’t make you feel loved, it means you weren’t worthy of love.
And yet it was never in your power to make her feel loved… and never in her power to create that feeling in you. You can offer her evidence of the love you feel, through words and actions and deep listening. She gets to choose whether or not to receive it. That choice is critical. That choice is her free will. That choice is her humanity. And respecting that choice is at the heart of what love really is.
What is unconditional love? It is a feeling that occurs in your body when you think loving thoughts about another person, creature or thing in the world, or about yourself. It is characterized by a lack of conditions.
I love you because you are.
Not I love you because you are beautiful, or I love you because you are smart or I love you because you love me.
I love you because you are. I love you because you exist and your existence creates an opportunity for me to feel love.
Unconditional love is radical acceptance. It is letting go of what “should” be and embracing what is. It is freeing YOURSELF from the suffering that comes with resisting reality.