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Life After Divorce For Men | How Better Beyond Divorce Helped Me Heal
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Life After Divorce For Men | How Better Beyond Divorce Helped Me Heal

If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Healing for Your Kids - Better Beyond Divorce Testimonial
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Healing for Your Kids - Better Beyond Divorce Testimonial

Gerardo wanted to stay in his daughter's life, but he didn't know how. The pain and the conflict were overwhelming. 8 months later, after working through the steps inside Better Beyond Divorce, he has a rich relationship with his daughter and an effective co-parenting partnership with his ex. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then Better Beyond Divorce can help. Learn how Better Beyond Divorce can help you, too ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
4 Reasons So Many Men Can't Move On After Divorce
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

4 Reasons So Many Men Can't Move On After Divorce

These are the top four reasons I see men getting stuck. Many men can't move on after divorce because they haven't dealt with these specific issues yet. As a divorce coach I've interviewed nearly 500 men in the last two years, and these are the top issues I see coming up again and again. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
What No One Told You About Self Love
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

What No One Told You About Self Love

You can't lie to your brain. If you approach self love with kind thoughts and self care when your brain actually thinks you're a failure, unattractive or someone who simply isn't good enough, it isn't going to work. Fortunately, there is another way to work with your brain to change those negative and painful patterns and cultivate not only self love but self respect in the process. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
The Surprising Truth About Using Logic To Suppress Emotions
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

The Surprising Truth About Using Logic To Suppress Emotions

There are very real physical consequences of suppressing emotion, it is actually illogical to do so. Instead of suppressing what you feel, you can learn to connect the logical and emotional brains, creating a healthy balance between the two. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. A 2013 study from Harvard School of Public Health found that people who suppressed their emotions had a 30% increase in their chance of a premature death, and a 70% increased risk of being diagnosed with cancer. I'm not sharing this to scare you, but rather to help your logical brain see the importance of working WITH emotions, not against them. There are some dangerous side effects to emotional suppression. It can have very real consequences for your physical health. The new YouTube video I'm sharing with you today isn't meant to scare anyone. It is an appeal to your rational, logical brain. If you've been suppressing emotions, then your rational brain needs to hear this. So often the logical brain dismisses emotions. It wants to stay in the realm of reason, and in the process discounts or tries to ignore emotions entirely. But when we do that we create a lot of physical stress on the body. That stress can lead to physical disease and even early death. Which means it actually isn't logical at all to supress emotions. It is my hope that today's video will help your rational mind see the value in working WITH emotions instead of fighting against them. Then we can get to work and actually deal with difficult emotions effectively, so you can enjoy both peace and health as you move forwards. Are you ready to stop suppressing and start working with emotional pain effectively? Inside Better Beyond Divorce you'll learn to regulate your nervous system and process even the most overwhelming of emotions. You can get healthy, get happy and move forward with your life with confidence. Learn more: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce
Angry At Your Ex? That's A GOOD Thing
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Angry At Your Ex? That's A GOOD Thing

As a divorce coach I used to try to move clients away from anger. Now I know better. Anger is an incredibly powerful resource when it comes to healing from heartbreak. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. There was a time when I didn't appreciate anger, mine or anyone else's. It seemed unnecessarily violent, aggressive and short sighted. And, frankly, it scared me. But my coaching clients have taught me the value of anger. Today I don't see anger as a frightening force or a waste of energy. Instead I see it as an essential resource in our emotional toolkit. That's what today's Youtube video is about, the ways that anger can actually be used as a tool for healing and moving forward after divorce. I've personally witnessed anger: Save people from suicide Restore lost self worth and confidence Help men who have been stuck for years finally let go and move on Set the foundation for healthy boundaries in relationships Allow people to break free from abusive cycles Lead men to peace and forgiveness (sounds crazy, right? But it actually happens) Don't get me wrong. Anger can be disruptive force, if its energy is misdirected. In fact, misdirected anger has ruined many marriages itself. But that isn't the fault of anger itself. Anger is a resource, and like many other resources it can be wielded to support healing or to bring about pain and destruction. This video reveals the shocking healing powers of anger, when it's used properly. Learn how to use anger for your benefit, and how it can help you regain your confidence and get your life back after divorce.
Blindsided By Divorce? The Real Reason Things Seemed So Good Right Before She Left
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Blindsided By Divorce? The Real Reason Things Seemed So Good Right Before She Left

If you were blindsided by divorce you likely misread the signs. This is NOT your fault... The actions that women take when they’ve given up on a relationship are often the very same actions that men interpret as a sign the relationship is improving. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. If you were blindsided by your wife asking for or even filing for divorce, you’re not alone. As a divorce coach for men, a big part of my job is helping my clients figure out what went wrong so they can heal and move forward. For many of them getting past the initial shock is a huge struggle, because things seemed fine, or even good right before she left. It took me awhile to figure out how this could happen - these guys aren’t stupid. Quite the contrary, most of my clients are incredibly intelligent, many of them highly successful engineers, business owners or physicians. And, tempting though it might be to conclude that there wives were heartless bitches (bleep), I don’t think that was the case either. So how could it happen that she got to a point where she was so desperately unhappy she was willing to end the marriage and he didn’t notice? It took me awhile to piece this one together, but I finally figured out a big part of the puzzle. The actions that women take when they’ve given up on a relationship are often the same actions that men interpret as a sign the relationship is improving. This isn’t because men are insensitive or women are heartless. It is because men and women are raised to value very different responses to emotion. Society tells men that in order to be successful in life or love they need to learn to control their emotions. This usually translates to suppressing their emotions. Men are encouraged to prioritize the logical, rational part of the brain, specifically the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex, which handles decision making and central executive functioning. Society tells women that in order to be successful in life or love they need to be able to manage their emotions and the emotions of other people. This usually translates to focusing on empathy, connection, conflict avoidance and people pleasing. When a woman gives up on a relationship she stops trying to connect emotionally with her husband. What does that look like to a man who sees emotions as obstacles to logic and reason? Often it looks like she finally became reasonable.
Why Women Act "Crazy" | Emotional Volatility In Relationships
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Why Women Act "Crazy" | Emotional Volatility In Relationships

When you learn the truth about 'crazy' or emotional women, two critical things will change: First, you'll like women more than you do now and second, you won't feel so threatened by their moods anymore. Relationships fail because one or both partners feels misunderstood, attacked or alone. By understanding the opposite sex a little more, you can create healthier, happier and more resilient relationships. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. Let’s not skirt around the issue. Women can be emotional. Sometimes when we’re emotional we act ‘crazy’, which is just another way of saying ‘unreasonable’ ‘irrational’ or ‘without logic’. And our crazy drives men crazy. I’m a divorce coach for men, so I get to talk to a lot of guys. Not surprisingly, a lot of them are really hesitant to get back out there in the dating world, in a large part because women seem so volatile and unpredictable. But as much as I know you don’t want to get hurt again, I also know that you don’t want to be alone. If you did, you probably wouldn’t have bothered with this video. So here’s what I can promise you - stick with me on this one, and by the end of this video you’ll have a much more complete understanding of why women act so irrationally AND that understanding will make you LIKE women just a little bit more than you do right now. Here’s the thing - women don’t want to be unreasonable. In fact, if we’re acting irrationally, we usually know it, and we’d like to change it. In fact, most women are incredibly skillful at controlling their emotions. If you’re divorced like many of my clients you may know this well - often women are so good at masking what they really feel that their husbands are completely blindsided by the divorce. And often those same women appear ‘totally happy’ immediately after the divorce, leading their ex husbands to wonder if they are completely heartless, unemotional beings incapable of love. Interestingly, these are the two accusations I most often hear leveled at women by the men that have been hurt by them: Women are too emotional and incapable of thinking logically… OR Women are heartless and incapable of feeling real love. How is it that women can seem both too emotional and too unemotional? This apparent contradiction is not something inherent, that women are born with. It is an adaptation to the contradictory expectations that modern society puts on women.
Do THIS To Attract Women Regardless Of Your Age, Looks Or Wealth
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Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Do THIS To Attract Women Regardless Of Your Age, Looks Or Wealth

Stop wasting your time worrying about your age, your weight or your income. Focus on doing these specific things to make women feel seen, heard and valued by you, and you'll never have a problem attracting women again. If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help. *Free Resources* Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ► https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/optin1671910386839 Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce? ► https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 *Work with Me* Coaching Programs ➭ https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/better-beyond-divorce Learn more ➭ https://rachaelsloancoaching.com Shoot me an email ➭ rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com *Helpful Books for Divorced Men* (affiliate links) ► The Full Body Presence - Gives gentle, accessible exercises for somatic processing of emotional pain and trauma https://amzn.to/3umFPkj ► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS ► Breaking The Habit Of Being Yourself - Concrete tools and exercises for rewiring the brain and reimagining your sense of self and purpose https://amzn.to/3BaDyg9 ► Legendary - Inspiration and a powerful perspective for stepping into your potential https://amzn.to/3H6ofsF ► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC ► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7 I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help divorced men move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. Women are attracted to men who make them feel special. Women want to feel seen, heard and understood. Stop worrying about your looks, your age or how much money you make. Stop trying to 'fix' those things in yourself, and stop lying about them. Instead, focus your energy on cultivating the kind of presence that makes people want to be near you. It isn't actually so hard to do. It requires you to be quiet and focus your full attention on the other person. Pay attention not only to what she says but how she says it. What is she feeling? What clues can you find in her body language, tone of voice and eye contact? Learning to listen, fully, to another person is the most valuable investment you can make when it comes to love. It will help you not only attract women but build strong relationships with them as well.
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