Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach
Who Are You After Divorce? Understanding Identity #shorts
Your identity is not who you are. Your identity is a tool. Your identity as a father is separate from your identity as engineer or business owner, or YouTube creator.
My identity as a wife is separate from my identity as a daughter is separate from my identity as a coach. And most of us walk through our day and we're constantly stepping out of one identity and into another when you're with your five year old son, you're in the identity of fatherhood, right? Sometimes you're not sometimes you're still an engineer. And you're not actually very useful as a father in that moment, right? That identity of engineer doesn't help you to interact and form connection relationship with your child. Like the identity as husband is not particularly useful when you go to work.
So we've become very good at adopting different identities and stepping into them stepping into different roles throughout our day and throughout our life.
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Work with Rachael: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8
I'm a Master NLP Practitioner and Certified Life Coach, and I help men like you take back control of their lives and thrive after divorce.
In my coaching program, Better Beyond Divorce, I provide the strategy you need to master each step, helping you to identify the specific challenges unique to your situation and giving you the tools to conquer them day by day. I’ll be there to offer support, guidance and coaching every step of the way.
At the end of BBD my clients report feeling calm, peaceful, energized and above all, confident. They are confident that they matter, confident that they can achieve their goals and confident that they can choose their next relationships with intention instead of out of the need to escape pain.
BBD is designed specifically for men in your position. At the end of the program, you’ll know that YOU did this. I’ll be the support, the guide. I’ll give you the step by step strategies, I’ll keep offering the coaching, offering the support, but you’re the one doing it. Your personal trainer can’t run the miles for you. As your coach, I can’t regulate your emotions for you, and you don’t need me to. At the end of this program you’ll walk away knowing that you don’t need me, because you have what you need to handle whatever comes up next.
That’s the difference between BBD and most therapy and other coaching programs - it’s my goal to set you up to own your results so you can replicate them throughout your life.
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Divorce strips you of one of the most powerful identities you have - the identity of husband. Who are you if you're not a husband? Who are you if you're not a father or the head of your home?
Identity is a big piece of divorce recovery. The loss of identity that happens in divorce leaves many men questioning... Who am I? Who are you if you're not her husband? Who are you if you're not her partner? Who are you if you're not the head of that household?
We tend to believe that our identities define who we are, but the reality is that we move through many different identities each day. We put our identities on and take them off like clothing!
Book a Consultation Call with Me:
https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8
Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com
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I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men.
I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same.
DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
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