Videos

Take Control of Your Life After Divorce
10:28
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Take Control of Your Life After Divorce

If you're lost or stuck, don't wait for time to fix things. You can actively take control of your life after divorce. I see too many men still trapped in pain, despair and suffering years after the divorce is over. If you don't actively take back control, things are not just magically going to improve. Ready to take control of your life after divorce? Book a consultation call with Rachael: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Who is it Living Your Life? Your Authentic Self is Distinct from Your Identity #shorts
00:54
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Who is it Living Your Life? Your Authentic Self is Distinct from Your Identity #shorts

Have you ever wondered what the heck "authentic self" means? Most of us think that we are defined by our identity as a parent, a partner, as a doctor or librarian or as a man or a woman. And yet our identities are inherently flexible, they can change, they can adapt, we can put on new ones, we can choose new ones, right? We do this all of the time. And yet, we also fall into the trap of believing that those identities are who we are, that that's the core of us. But it's not. It's just all these roles that we've developed that we've pulled from out here from experience, from story from what other people do from what we've learned as possible. And we build these identities for ourselves, these layers, this toolkit that we can pull from and step into and use at different points in times in our life, but who's doing all of that? And who is it that's actually stepping into the role? Who is it that's using the identity of engineer at work and the identity of father at home? Who is it who's thinking the thoughts that become beliefs that define the identity? That's You. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====
This is Why You Can't Let Go After Divorce
21:13
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

This is Why You Can't Let Go After Divorce

Finally understand why part of you is still holding on and can't let go after your divorce. This is one of the most common problems men bring to me. They say, I know, I know it here, in my mind. I know I've got to let go. I've know I've got to move on. I know it's over. Maybe I don't even want it back right now the way it was not after what she did. But something in here is still holding on. I can't let her go. Why? Why am I holding on so tightly? And how do I get past this? How do I start to move forward when a part of me is holding on so tightly? They ask me because I've been able to help the men I work with do exactly that. Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====
Who Are You After Divorce? Understanding Identity #shorts
00:52
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Who Are You After Divorce? Understanding Identity #shorts

Your identity is not who you are. Your identity is a tool. Your identity as a father is separate from your identity as engineer or business owner, or YouTube creator. My identity as a wife is separate from my identity as a daughter is separate from my identity as a coach. And most of us walk through our day and we're constantly stepping out of one identity and into another when you're with your five year old son, you're in the identity of fatherhood, right? Sometimes you're not sometimes you're still an engineer. And you're not actually very useful as a father in that moment, right? That identity of engineer doesn't help you to interact and form connection relationship with your child. Like the identity as husband is not particularly useful when you go to work. So we've become very good at adopting different identities and stepping into them stepping into different roles throughout our day and throughout our life. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Work with Rachael: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 I'm a Master NLP Practitioner and Certified Life Coach, and I help men like you take back control of their lives and thrive after divorce. In my coaching program, Better Beyond Divorce, I provide the strategy you need to master each step, helping you to identify the specific challenges unique to your situation and giving you the tools to conquer them day by day. I’ll be there to offer support, guidance and coaching every step of the way. At the end of BBD my clients report feeling calm, peaceful, energized and above all, confident. They are confident that they matter, confident that they can achieve their goals and confident that they can choose their next relationships with intention instead of out of the need to escape pain. BBD is designed specifically for men in your position. At the end of the program, you’ll know that YOU did this. I’ll be the support, the guide. I’ll give you the step by step strategies, I’ll keep offering the coaching, offering the support, but you’re the one doing it. Your personal trainer can’t run the miles for you. As your coach, I can’t regulate your emotions for you, and you don’t need me to. At the end of this program you’ll walk away knowing that you don’t need me, because you have what you need to handle whatever comes up next. That’s the difference between BBD and most therapy and other coaching programs - it’s my goal to set you up to own your results so you can replicate them throughout your life. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Divorce strips you of one of the most powerful identities you have - the identity of husband. Who are you if you're not a husband? Who are you if you're not a father or the head of your home? Identity is a big piece of divorce recovery. The loss of identity that happens in divorce leaves many men questioning... Who am I? Who are you if you're not her husband? Who are you if you're not her partner? Who are you if you're not the head of that household? We tend to believe that our identities define who we are, but the reality is that we move through many different identities each day. We put our identities on and take them off like clothing! Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Child Custody for Fathers: A Powerful New Approach to Divorce with Kids
55:26
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Child Custody for Fathers: A Powerful New Approach to Divorce with Kids

Garry Junkuhn shares a surprising new perspective on navigating child custody for fathers, and it's effective... even in situations where your ex is mad at you or trying to keep you from seeing your children. Divorce with kids is never simple or easy, but if you start practicing some of Garry's methods, your relationship with your kids could come out stronger. Learn more about 100K Fathers or Work with Garry https://100kfathers.com/ Find Garry on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr3YEZhTor5Yjq1EcQA4E6g --------------------------------------------------------------------- 0:00:35 - Welcome Statement 0:01:40 - Mistakes Men Make in Child Custody 0:04:15 - How to Understand the Relationship between the Mother and the Child 0:07:45 - Father’s Custody Battles and Struggles to see their Child 0:11:27 - Garry Junkuhn’s Personal Experience 0:13:31 - What Father's Can Do 0:18:02 - Process, Steps and Best Paths Forward 0:23:05 - Letting go of Fear in Court 0:27:28 - Effect of Divorce on Children 0:37:11 - Shifting Focus and Looking for Opportunity 0:43:13 - Taking Care of Yourself 0:45:40 - Four Core Pillars of Life 0:50:25 - Specific Tools to take Ownership of Your Life 0:52:13 - Ways to Connect with Garry Junkuhn -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Contact Rachael or Book a Consultation https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 You may also email me to discuss coaching: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
Essential Mindset Shift to Fix Communication in Relationships #shorts
01:01
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Essential Mindset Shift to Fix Communication in Relationships #shorts

Communications in relationships is the biggest place people fail when it comes to being a good partner. And this is the center of most relationship problems. You've got two people who are trying to communicate with one another, and neither one is seeing or understanding the other person. And so when I come into the situation as a coach, what I try to help my clients understand is that if you want the other person to be able to see and understand you, you first have to give them that gift. And that makes people upset because why am I the one why am I the one who always has to do all the work? Why am I the one who has to make her feel comfortable so that she can see and understand me? And the answer is you don't have to. It's your choice. You can choose to stay where you are, insisting that she see and understand you and ignoring the fact that her nervous system is all charged up. Or you can recognize that her nervous system is activated and yours is also. And stop treating this like a rational discussion or an argument that you could win through logic and start instead dealing with yourself and with her as the emotional activated animals that you are. Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====
Remarrying After Divorce for Men: Dealing with Pressure from Women
26:05
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Remarrying After Divorce for Men: Dealing with Pressure from Women

You're with a partner you really like, but you have zero interest in remarrying after divorce... you don't want to put yourself in that position again. But what if marriage is really important to your partner, or she doesn't listen to or seem to understand why you don't want to remarry? This video will help you navigate these difficult conversations so that you can enjoy your life after divorce and have meaningful relationships and deep intimacy, even if you choose not to remarry. Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. A viewer and I were recently chatting about his life after divorce, and he asked me to make a video about why women feel so strongly about marriage. In this case, his partner of 2 years is pressuring him to get married, but he’s just recovered from a particularly nasty divorce. She wants him to remarry… he has absolutely no intention of doing so and the issue is driving them apart. This raises some questions. Should you remarry after divorce? Is it safer to be in a partnership that isn’t legally binding? Life after divorce for many men involves picking up the pieces financially and personally after going through a big legal battle. Many men feel taken advantage of, especially when the divorce itself was something they didn’t want. And yet, if you find a new partner, and she wants to be married, what can you do? In this video I discuss the underlying cause of why many women push for marriage, and also shine some light on why, specifically, men can be hesitant to remarry after divorce. I also share some communication skills to make these kinds of difficult conversations easier. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====
Getting Help but Still STUCK? Here's the Problem with ACIM, LOA & Most Coaching Programs for Men
14:21
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Getting Help but Still STUCK? Here's the Problem with ACIM, LOA & Most Coaching Programs for Men

There's one big problem with most coaching programs for men as well as ACIM, LOA and other approaches to divorce recovery many men turn to for help. A Course in Miracles and Law of Attraction work have a lot to offer. Many men-centric coaching programs do too... but they tend to skimp on one important feature. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Book a Consultation Call with Me: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique approach to divorce recovery based specifically on the needs of men. I help my clients move from the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and in the aftermath of divorce to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. In these videos, I intend to help you do the same. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. Don't get me wrong, I really like A Course in Miracles, or ACIM. At first it was a bit too religious-ey for me, I'll admit that, but underneath the religious language is some truly powerful work. The same is true with Law of Attraction, or LOA. No, I'm not really into the "woo woo" stuff, and I don't think you can just dream your way into love or riches. But I do know that the way you think has a deep impact on the way you feel which has a strong effect on how you act. And your actions are what ultimately drive the experiences you have and the opportunities that are possible for you. So ACIM and LOA have good stuff to offer. So do the many coaching programs out there for men. But they all miss one big thing - by always focusing on the positive, they reinforce the feeling many men have that there is something wrong with them. When you only focus on what is "good" and encourage folks to ignore or deny their own doubting voices, it tends to make them believe that there is something wrong with them or with their inner voices. And it doesn't work. If someone is strongly identifying with a negative inner voice, with a feeling of fear or loss, no amount of positive cheerleading is going to silence that voice. That's why a lot of people engage openly in this kind of work, in coaching programs for men, or in LOA or ACIM and still stay STUCK. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====
Why Marriages Fail: Toxic Positivity & Emotional Suppression
15:56
Rachael Sloan - Relationship Coach

Why Marriages Fail: Toxic Positivity & Emotional Suppression

Did her toxic positivity drive you into emotional suppression? Men’s divorce experiences are often characterized by accusations such as, “You lack emotional intelligence” or “you’re always so angry or negative”. Ironically, these accusations are often made in anger by their partners. In this video we explore the idea of “toxic” positivity and how an insistent focus on what’s good within a marriage can actually contribute to emotional suppression, poor communication and ultimately divorce. Make sure you stick around to the end, because I also share a simple but powerful way to recover from emotional suppression as you work to move on from your divorce. IS BETTER BEYOND DIVORCE THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR? Weekly personal coaching, detailed exercises and explanations and daily support to help you get healthy, get happy and move on from your divorce with confidence. Book a free Consultation Call: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/contact-8 Or email me to schedule a time: rachael@rachaelsloancoaching.com ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ GET YOUR FREE GUIDE: Stages of Divorce for Men (& How to Move Through Them to Heal) 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/564429e2c4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ARE YOU READY TO DATE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? The Dating After Divorce Checklist helps you identify the specific areas you need to work on to actually ENJOY dating after divorce. 👉 https://adept-leader-7807.ck.page/a70288df40 --------------------------------------------------------------------------- I’m Rachael Sloan. I’m a divorce coach for men. I’m also a Master NLP Practitioner, a certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce, a unique men's divorce recovery program based specifically on the your needs. DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment. Men's divorce experience is often deeply colored by their partner's accusations, which often focus on the man's emotional suppression. Common complaints include: - You're not emotionally available. - You get angry too easily. - You yell/swear too much. - You're not passionate enough. - You don't make me feel loved. On the one hand men are expected to not express anger or frustration (or grief), while on the other they are expected to demonstrate passionate love and romance. Often the origins of this emotional double standard lie in "toxic" positivity. I'm not a big fan of labeling anything as toxic, but this is the language my clients are using and I think it's an important topic to discuss. Toxic positivity is a focus on the positive that goes too far. There isn't room for any "negative" emotion or thought. What happens is your partner starts getting upset with you every time you express a non positive thought or feeling. In her desperation to embrace positivity she focuses almost exclusively on your negativity. Having worked with both men and women and explored these phenomena with a number of colleagues, I don't blame the women anymore than I blame the men. We are all operating under a set of societal expectations until we pause and really examine those beliefs and how they show up in our lives. The beauty that I do see is that we can each make that choice and do that work for ourselves, even if our loved ones choose not too. LICENSE CERTIFICATE: Envato Elements Item ================================================= This license certificate documents a license to use the item listed below on a non-exclusive, commercial, worldwide and revokable basis, for one Single Use for this Registered Project. Item Title: Motivational Orchestral Adventure Item URL: https://elements.envato.com/motivational-orchestral-adventure-7GC32Q9 Item ID: 7GC32Q9 Author Username: musicdream Licensee: Jordan Ingram Registered Project Name: coaching License Date: February 26th, 2022 Item License Code: 52NJ9TLHFG The license you hold for this item is only valid if you complete your End Product while your subscription is active. Then the license continues for the life of the End Product (even if your subscription ends). For any queries related to this document or license please contact Envato Support via https://help.elements.envato.com/hc/en-us/requests/new Envato Elements Pty Ltd (ABN 87 613 824 258) PO Box 16122, Collins St West, VIC 8007, Australia ==== THIS IS NOT A TAX RECEIPT OR INVOICE ====