She's laughing with friends. Posting like everything's normal. Going about her life like the marriage meant nothing. Meanwhile you're devastated, and it feels like you've just been tossed aside like a piece of trash. Know this: her calm doesn't mean you didn't matter. It doesn't mean the marriage meant nothing to her. What's really going on in her brain is something very different, and understanding it is part of what actually sets you free to heal. As a divorce coach for men